Okay, so I’ve been wanting to spice things up a bit, and I thought, “Why not try some kinky goth lingerie?” I’ve always been drawn to the darker aesthetic, but I’ve never really worn it, you know?
First, I scrolled through a bunch of images online, just to get a feel for what’s out there. It was kind of overwhelming! There’s so much variety. I mean, you’ve got your classic corsets, your lace-up stuff, your vinyl, your fishnets…everything!
Getting Started
- Looked for inspiration: Just a general vibe check.
- Made a list: What did I actually want to try? Corset? Fishnets? Something else entirely?
- Set a budget: ‘Cause, let’s be real, this stuff can get pricey.
After I had a better idea, I checked out a few local shops. I wanted to try things on, see how they felt. Plus, I like supporting local businesses when I can.
The Deep Dive
The shop visits were…interesting. The first place was super helpful, the lady there really knew her stuff. She helped me find a few things that fit my body type and what I was looking for. The second place? Not so much. Felt kinda judged, which was a bummer.
I ended up with a black lace corset, some high-waisted fishnet stockings, and a pair of strappy, almost cage-like, panties. I also grabbed a choker, because why not?
The Test Run.
Trying it all on at home was nerve-wracking, I can’t lie. I put on some dark lipstick, did my hair all messy and big, and then… I squeezed myself into the corset. It was surprisingly comfortable! The fishnets were a little tricky to get on without snagging, but once I managed that, I felt pretty badass. The panties were…definitely revealing.
I stood in front of the mirror for a good while, just checking myself out. It was definitely a confidence boost. I felt powerful, sexy, and a little bit dangerous. And, that feeling is addicting.
Honestly, the whole experience was pretty fun. It was about stepping outside of my comfort zone, trying something new, and owning it. Will I wear it all the time? Probably not. But for a special occasion, or just to feel a little extra? Definitely.
