Okay, so I’ve been seeing these gothic lingerie sets all over my social media feeds, and I finally decided to give it a try. I’m not gonna lie, I was a little intimidated at first, but it turned out to be way more fun than I expected!
First, I spent a good chunk of time just browsing. I mean, there are SO many different styles within the “gothic” umbrella. Did I want something more Victorian-inspired? Or something super edgy with lots of straps and buckles? It was a whole process.
- Started with some general searches to get a feel for what was out there.
- Made a little mood board (okay, a Pinterest board, let’s be real) of the looks I liked best.
- Narrowed it down to a few specific styles I wanted to focus on.
Then came the actual shopping. This was tricky because I wanted something that looked good, but also felt comfortable. I’m not about that “beauty is pain” life, especially when it comes to underwear!
I looked at tons of different, and compared their prices and reviews.

Finally, I found the one! It was a black lace set with some delicate silver chain details. It looked both romantic and a little bit badass, which is totally my vibe.
The Big Moment
When the package arrived, I was so excited! I ripped it open (carefully, of course, gotta keep that packaging nice) and laid everything out. The material felt surprisingly soft, which was a huge relief.
Trying it on was the real test. I slipped on the bra and adjusted the straps until it felt just right. Then, I put on bottoms, and checked myself in the mirror.

Honestly, I felt amazing! It was such a confidence boost. I ended up spending like an hour just feeling myself, taking some selfies, and prancing around my room. No shame in my game! Haha. I might not wear it every day, but it’s definitely going to be my go-to for when I want to feel extra special. I like it!