Okay, so my best friend, Sarah, is getting married next year, and she’s all about that gothic aesthetic. Think dark, romantic, and a little bit dramatic. Naturally, she wants her bridesmaids to match the vibe, so I volunteered to find some gothic-style bridesmaid dresses. Let me tell you, it’s been an adventure!
First Steps: Brainstorming and Pinterest Deep Dive
First, I sat down with Sarah and we brainstormed some ideas. We talked about colors – deep reds, blacks, purples, maybe even a dark emerald green. We also discussed fabrics. Velvet was a big YES, but also lace, and maybe some flowy chiffon for a softer touch.
Then, I dove headfirst into Pinterest. Seriously, I spent hours just scrolling through pictures. I created a board specifically for “Gothic Bridesmaid Dresses” and started pinning anything that caught my eye. This helped me get a visual sense of what was out there and what Sarah might like.
The Search Begins: Online and In-Store
Armed with my Pinterest board and a general idea, I started searching online. I checked out some big-name stores, but honestly, most of what I found was either too traditional or just plain boring.
I decided to try some smaller, independent boutiques online. I figured they might have more unique options. Bingo! I stumbled upon a few shops that specialized in alternative fashion and gothic clothing, and that’s where I started to find some real contenders.
- I looked for dresses with lace details – maybe long sleeves or a high neckline.
- Velvet dresses were definitely on the list, especially in rich jewel tones.
- I also considered dresses with interesting details, like corsets or asymmetrical hemlines.
Narrowing Down the Options
After days of searching, I had a pretty good collection of dresses. I sent Sarah the links to my favorites, and we spent a fun evening going through them together. We eliminated some right away, and narrowed it down to about five top choices.
The Final Decision (and Alterations!)
Finally, Sarah made her decision! She chose a stunning black velvet dress with lace sleeves. It’s elegant, dramatic, and perfectly suits her gothic wedding theme. We all ordered our dresses, and now we’re just waiting for them to arrive.
We all know there will likely be some alterations, so We’ve already found a local seamstress who specializes in formalwear.
It’s been a process, but it’s been so much fun! And I can’t wait to see everyone in their gorgeous gothic dresses on the big day.
