Okay, so I wanted to find the perfect gothic semi-formal dress. I’ve got this event coming up, and the dress code is kinda vague, but I want to lean into the gothic aesthetic without going full-on costume, you know?
First, I hit up some online stores. I started browsing, just to get a feel for what’s out there. I saw a lot of black lace, which is a classic, but some of it was a bit too… much. Like, I’m not trying to be Morticia Addams, just subtly spooky.
Then I spent some time refining my search. I added keywords like “velvet,” “A-line,” and “midi” to try and narrow things down. I wanted something that flattered my figure, but not skin tight.
- “Velvet” because it just screams gothic elegance.
- “A-line” because it’s generally flattering.
- “Midi” because it felt like the right balance between formal and casual.
I found a few contenders, but they were either too expensive, or the reviews mentioned issues with the fit or quality. I bookmarked them anyway, just in case.

Then I decided to switch gears and look at some inspiration images. Maybe I could find a dress that I liked, and then try to find something similar. I scrolled through tons of pictures, trying to find examples of “gothic semi-formal.”
I noticed a trend: darker colors, obviously, but also interesting textures and details. Things like subtle ruffles, interesting necklines, or maybe a touch of dark red or purple instead of just plain black.
Armed with these new ideas, I went back to the online stores. I changed my search terms again, this time focusing on dresses with specific details, like “high neck” or “ruffled sleeves.”

Finally, I stumbled upon a dress that seemed perfect. It was a dark burgundy velvet midi dress, with a high neckline and delicate lace detailing on the sleeves. It was A-line, so I knew it would be flattering. And the best part? It was on sale!
I read through the reviews carefully, and they were overwhelmingly positive. People mentioned that it was comfortable, well-made, and true to size.
So, I took a deep breath and ordered it. I chose the size that seemed most likely to fit, based on the size chart and the reviews. And now, I’m just waiting for it to arrive! Fingers crossed it’s as good in person as it looks online.

Wish my best!I’ll keep you updated.