Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and for us goths, it's time to ditch the generic flowers and candy hearts for something that truly speaks to our darker sensibilities. But, what do you get your goth partner who loves all things eerie, mysterious, and beautifully unconventional? No worries—I’ve got you covered. Here’s a guide to gifts that’ll make their heart skip a beat, without venturing into cheesy territory.
1. Gothic Jewelry: Dark and Timeless
When it comes to gifting something that’s both personal and striking, gothic jewelry is always a win. From chunky silver rings with skulls or pentagrams to delicate chokers adorned with intricate lace or black velvet, jewelry can easily become a meaningful keepsake. Look for pieces that reflect their personal aesthetic—whether they’re into Victorian goth, cyber goth, or the more minimalist dark fashion styles.
Pro Tip: If you want to make it extra special, consider getting custom engraving for a piece, like their initials, a significant date, or a personal message. A unique touch will definitely make the gift feel more thoughtful.
2. Black Roses: A Gothic Twist on the Classic Flower
While the traditional Valentine’s Day rose may be a bit too mainstream for us, there’s nothing quite as romantic and dramatic as a bouquet of black roses. These can be real (yes, black roses do exist!) or faux, depending on whether you want to go for something that lasts forever. Black roses symbolize mystery, depth, and eternal love—perfect for a goth partner who appreciates the beauty in darkness.
Bonus Idea: Pair the roses with a heartfelt handwritten note or a dark poem to give your gift a truly personal touch.
3. A Leather-Bound Journal: For Their Dark Thoughts
If your partner enjoys writing, sketching, or even jotting down dark poetry, a high-quality leather-bound journal could be an ideal gift. You can find many beautiful gothic-style journals with intricate embossing or embellishments, perfect for capturing the thoughts of a free spirit. Plus, it’s something they’ll use and treasure, making it a practical yet thoughtful gift.
Pro Tip: Add a special pen with a gothic design (maybe with a skull or raven motif) to make the set complete.
4. Gothic Candles and Candleholders: Light Up the Dark
Nothing sets the mood like candles—especially when they come in deep, rich colors and unique scents like black vanilla, blood orange, or patchouli. Consider gifting your partner some gothic candles in unusual shapes (think skulls, candelabras, or even coffin-shaped candles) along with an elegant candleholder. Not only will they enhance the vibe of their space, but the soft flicker of candlelight will create an intimate, romantic atmosphere for the two of you to enjoy together.
Pro Tip: Go for scented candles that evoke mystery and sensuality to create a seductive vibe.
5. Custom Goth Apparel: Fashion That Speaks to Their Soul
If your partner loves to dress in dark, dramatic fashion, why not spoil them with a new piece of goth clothing? Whether it's a tailored leather jacket, a vintage-inspired corset, or a graphic tee with their favorite goth band, custom apparel is always a fantastic choice. For extra points, look for something that speaks to their personal style, whether that’s Victorian, punk, or cyber goth.
Bonus Tip: You can also create something unique—perhaps a custom piece of clothing with a design that has a personal meaning for both of you. Maybe even a matching set!
6. A Gothic Art Print: Something Beautifully Dark for Their Walls
If your partner is into art, gifting them a gothic art print could be a meaningful and visually stunning gesture. Look for prints from dark art artists that explore themes of fantasy, horror, or gothic romance. Whether it’s a mysterious forest scene, a haunting portrait, or an abstract interpretation of darkness, a well-chosen art print can be a perfect addition to their space.
Pro Tip: Frame the print in a sleek, black frame to give it a polished, elegant look.
7. Tarot Cards or Other Divination Tools: For the Mystically Inclined
If your partner is into tarot, astrology, or any form of mysticism, a unique set of tarot cards, an astrological birth chart reading, or other divination tools can make an incredibly thoughtful gift. You can find beautiful, dark-themed tarot decks or crystal ball sets, or even explore more niche mystical gifts that cater to their specific spiritual practice. These kinds of gifts are perfect for someone who enjoys exploring the mysterious side of life.
Bonus Idea: You could even offer a tarot card reading for a fun and intimate Valentine’s Day experience.
8. A Goth-Themed Playlist or Mixtape: For the Perfect Soundtrack
Music is such an integral part of goth culture, so why not create a goth-themed playlist or mixtape for your partner? Curate songs that capture your relationship’s vibe, or simply tracks that you know they’ll love. Whether it’s a selection of darkwave, post-punk, or industrial tracks, the personal touch of a custom playlist will make them feel truly seen and appreciated.
Pro Tip: Make it extra special by presenting it in a unique way, like a vintage cassette tape, vinyl, or USB drive in a gothic-themed box.
9. Gothic-Themed Books: Dark Literature for the Soul
For the literary goth in your life, gifting them a book (or a series) by a dark, classic author can be an amazing gesture. Whether it’s something by Edgar Allan Poe, Mary Shelley, or even the eerie works of H.P. Lovecraft, dark literature always makes for a captivating gift. If they’re into modern dark fiction, check out authors like Anne Rice or Neil Gaiman for something a little more contemporary.
Bonus Tip: Add a special note on the inside cover or create a personalized bookmark to accompany the book.
Wrapping It Up
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be all hearts and fluff if that’s not your thing. The key to a perfect goth Valentine’s gift is choosing something that aligns with your partner’s personal style and interests, while still bringing a dark and romantic touch. Whether it’s gothic jewelry, a personalized tarot deck, or a beautiful art print, these gifts will show your partner how much you truly care—without sacrificing the uniqueness of goth culture.
So go ahead and spoil your goth love with something meaningful and darkly beautiful this Valentine’s Day. Trust me, they’ll be obsessed with it!
