Okay, so I’ve been messing around with my look lately, trying to find something that’s me but not just the same old stuff. I’ve always been drawn to goth, but the traditional goth look? Not always my vibe. So, I started digging, like, really digging, into other styles that kind of touch on that dark aesthetic without being so…predictable.
The Deep Dive
First, I scoured the internet. I mean, hours. Pinterest boards, blogs, random articles… you name it, I looked at it. I wanted to see what else was out there, beyond the usual velvet and lace.
I started by listing what I didn’t want. No heavy eyeliner (most days, anyway). No giant, teased-out hair. No corsets (too much work!). I wanted something I could wear every day, not just for a special occasion or night out.
Experiment Time
Then came the fun part: actually trying stuff out. I went through my closet and pulled out anything that felt even remotely dark or edgy. I had a bunch of black clothes, obviously, but also some deep reds, purples, and even some gray stuff that I thought might work.
- I paired a flowy black maxi skirt with a band t-shirt and some chunky boots. Felt pretty good.
- I tried a dark red velvet dress with a leather jacket. Okay, a little more traditional, but still cool.
- I even experimented with some ripped jeans and a black turtleneck. Super simple, but definitely had a darker edge.
I took a bunch of pictures (cringe, I know, but helpful!) to see what looked good and what didn’t. It was a lot of trial and error. Some outfits were total fails, but others? I was surprised how much I liked them.
What I Learned
What I realized is that you don’t have to go full-on trad goth to get that dark aesthetic. You can mix and match different pieces, play with textures, and find what works for you. It’s all about finding your own personal style, right? I’m still figuring it out, but it’s been a fun (and sometimes frustrating!) process.
My style is more about how to show my inner side, It’s all about my feeling. I think I will keep trying to find my own style and what’s most important is to be myself!
